Unwanted..

Sometimes you just feel unwanted even with the people you wanted the most..

I know it’s a sad feeling we all have been there.. right?

The feeling of loneliness and being unwanted..even around people are the most terrible feelings anyone could ever feel..

We all hate this feeling of being unimportant to the people who are most important to us.

It happens when people lose interest, gets tired, annoyed, conversations become shorter, ignores texts, show no attention and don’t care about what and how you feel..

You feel left out and then distance yourself..

Sad. Right?

The worst thing you could do to someone who loves you is to make them feel like that.. and it’s a human nature after all, we all want to feel appreciated, wanted and loved..❤️
Isn’t its one of the basic human needs..?

We also wish for the same love, attention and affection we give to the loved ones.. but sometimes people don’t appreciate & understand the value of someone who loves them and cares about them selflessly, without any ulterior motives.. value of someone who wants nothing but love back in return.

It’s a damn precious thing.. when you have someone like that in your life. They are like your unconditional support system.. but when you take this thing for granted and the other person leaves or gives up on you.. then you’ll regret it.. you will regret about losing a rare gem.. and losing someone like that so don’t ever make this mistake in your life.

Life gives some opportunities only once..

We feel unwanted when we thought that the people we love would always choose us over everyone else, but when they don’t.. we feel.. maybe there’s something wrong with us or maybe we’re not good enough.. which is totally unfair to us…

How on the basis of someone else you measures your value.. your worth..

Are you that priceless??

I know you are not.
So stop feeling sorry for yourself and get out of the pity party..!

Just wipe up your eyes and put up your head.

Everyone deserves to be happy and you too, trust me.

Never give anybody the power to make you feel worthless or unwanted ever.

Do not waste your time and energy on someone who treats you like a waste. You’re not trash.

You are a diamond.. so never let anyone dull your shine.

Whenever you feel unwanted or anything like that with someone.. just walk away, leave them alone.
It’s crystal clear they are not interested in you and they don’t want you that’s why they treats you that way.

You know we treat people who are valuable to us very cautiously.

Leave because you have no reason to stay.

You know in life..there are times when we just need one good reason to stay..just one.. and if you can’t even find that single one then..then what’s the point..??

You should know you’re not an option..and definitely not a choice.. know your value and who you are.

~You are priority

Leave because what you have to offer and give them is way more than they deserve & willing to give you back.

It’s not about

• Pride ×

• Or ego ×

It’s about self respect..

• Self esteem ✓

• Happiness ✓

• And peace of mind ✓

So never ever let anyone to make you feel like that..

Just keep loving yourself and moving forward..


Thanks for your time..

Keep smiling 😋

Stay blessed 🌼

© Dreamer❤️

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Bad days..?

Are you having a bad day? or should i say.. bad days?

Well days like those.. we all have now and then.

“All of us..”

The things we wanted to work out perfectly did not worked out.
So many things we have promised ourselves, just can’t happen.

Sometimes.. it takes a little longer to arrive where you want to be and you feel frustrated.
Even the world seems to be moving on without you and you feel like you’re invisible.
All of your strength is used up and you yourself doesn’t even know how much longer you can hold on..

The faith you had is lost.. and you know what’s the the worst part, you don’t even have somebody to tell you that it’s gonna be ok.. just hold on for a little longer, everything’s gonna be alright..or something like that..

Someone who can understand or just listen atleast.
You know when will feel lost, the other person’s presence can’t help us to find our lost track but can keep the candle of faith alive in our heart.. and when you don’t have anybody around you, it becomes more difficult..unbearable.

But you know what.. besides everything..you will rise..

Your bad days will create better days for you.

You will still arrive where you want to be..

Things will work out..

You will be stronger.. maybe even more than you were before..

You will find the strength you did not know you had.. and with this strength you will pick up yourself and will achieve more than you could ever imagine.

All you need is a little trust on yourself.. you know you can do it..you can do anything.. right.. and not giving up so easily..

So, don’t be so hard on yourself.

So what if things didn’t went according to the plan today.. Tomorrow will still come.
Tomorrow is a new day..another chance.. it’s all a part of process.. process of your journey…the journey you desire.

We need to experience all different days.. these days makes you stronger and wiser then you were the day before..Trust me, it does just keep holding on.. 🙃

© Dreamer❤️

Thanks for reading..I hope you all are doing great..😇

Keep smiling 😋

High maintenance women

You call her high maintenance..Well maybe that’s the kind of woman she is.

  • If high maintenance means having zero interest in short and useless conversations and loving conversation that leads to somewhere or makes her feel good and lasts until the sun rise, then yes she is high maintenance women.
  • If high maintenance means not wasting her time crying over some stupid boy but moving on with the dream and direction, then yes she is a high maintenance woman.
  • If high maintenance means doing the things that inspire her and not doing just because everybody else is doing, then yes she is a high maintenance woman.
  • If high maintenance means spending time alone rather than spending time with just anybody, then yes she is the high maintenance woman.
  • If high maintenance means walking away from something or someone that isn’t feel right, then yes she is a high maintenance woman.
  • And finally, If she values memories, little things and unconditional love more than your expensive things and possessions then yes she is a high maintenance woman.

The woman you will get once in a lifetime and you will be able to keep her if you are a man of your words, who can handle her wholeheartedly with the high level of efforts because she is the kind of woman that won’t accept less then she knows she deserve and who’s aware that she is a rare breed of women.

Thanks for reading 😇

Keep smiling 😋

© Dreamer ❤️