Dream love

Why it is difficult to receive the kind of love we’ve always dreamt of..

I think that love exists only in movies, songs, stories, etc.. not in real life..and when we face it..the reality hits us hard..

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Thought #7

Ending can be good too..like the end of negative thinking, the end of negative actions, the end of bad reactions, the end of procastination , the end of eating unhealthy food, the end of wasting time, the end of being influenced by little minds, the end of not exercising, the end of self insecurities, and the most important is the end of settling for less.. you should know that some things are good to end for the betterment of your own self.. know you deserve the best and work for it 🌻

Thought #6

Some people aren’t ready for receiving the love that you have to offer for them, don’t let this this disappoint you or change your ways of loving.
Keep spreading your love anyway because we can only give what we are full of 💙.

Read & Transform

Reading books can exercise your brain and even boost your emotional intelligence. To get motivation and to remain positive we must feed some good and motivational thoughts in our brain, as we all know we are what we eat, listen and read.

I am sharing some of the books that will work as a powerhouse and will definitely help you out to transform yourself and to be the most enthusiastic and confident person in the room.

1. Megaliving by Robin Sharma.

The title of the book is self explanatory. The book gives the 30 day transformation reads which actually helps to fuel our motivation and get things done.

A must read if you’re looking for inspiration.(Click on the image to buy the book.)

2. You can win by Shiv Khera.

If you want to boost your confidence then you must read this book.

An easy-to-read, practical, common-sense guide that will take you from ancient wisdom to modern-day thinking, You Can Win helps you establish new goals, develop a new sense of purpose, and generate new ideas about yourself and your future. It guarantees, as the title suggests, a lifetime of success. The book enables you to translate positive thinking into attitude, ambition and action to give you the winning edge.

3. See you at the top by Zig Zaglar.

The book provides step-by-step instructions on how to change the way you think about yourself and your surroundings.

How to work on self image and on your goals.

4. The power of positive thinking by Normen Vincet.

Good thoughts do attract success and happiness is one major theme running through the book.

Norman Peale, one main objective for writing this book was to present a viewpoint about mankind having a solution to freedom from pain and negativity.

5. Think and grow rich by Napoleon Hill.

Think and Grow Rich teaches not just concepts but also methods. It is not a book that a reader can use for one time consumption.

The book, even author recommends, has to be read one chapter at a time and in sequence. Several readers and even some motivational speakers claim to have been reading this book over and over again, few pages at a time, for a long time now.

Till date, it remains the number one self help book in the world, as far as sales are concerned! Should give it a try.

These were some books that can actually help you to succeed your goals and aims of life , you must at least should read them once in your life. 🙂

Do you have expectations??

Do you have expectations with the ones you love..and want to set them free, know how.

“Expectation is the root cause of all heartache.”

Very well written by William Shakespeare.

But as a human being, its natural and we can’t help it. It’s automatic to have expectations.. specially from someone we love from the depth of our hearts, and that’s what ruins all the good things. We expect so much from them that we forget they are humans too and can do whatever they wanna do or can behave or react the way they feel like. Who are we to control their every action. As the beautiful quote say:

If you love someone, set them free..if they come back they’re yours, if they don’t..they never were.

Then the question comes..should we let them go or let them behave the way they want to, i think yes.. because that what love is all about.. letting the other person be themselves..who they truly are..no pretending, but it’s easier said than done, and that too when they have changed, and aren’t the same way they used to be or in other words we can say not the way we expected them to be.. it actually hurts really bad but you can’t blame them for that. It becomes harder when you can’t even tell or explain them what you’re feeling because you know they aren’t feeling the same towards you, and things have started to change and you’re afraid to lose them.

“Who hurt you ?? “

My own expectations…

We have to understand that they aren’t God anyway, they can also grow and change, can make mistakes and it’s not their fault.

Don’t blame people for disappointing you. Blame yourself for expecting too much.

This is what the problem with the sensitive people, they love and think deeply about life. Even the simple things mean the most to them, they notice and can feel things are changing, but they don’t say a word because that’s their nature. They just don’t express themselves because they don’t want to complaint and seem to be a sensitive or over emotional person because that would be perceived as a weak person which they knows they aren’t. And because of that , they suffer more.. expect more..they expect their loved ones to understand them and then ends up feeling unwanted which leads to frustration.

Expectations feeds frustration, it is an unhealthy attachment to people, things, we wish to control but can’t.

Everyone is going and growing through life. They also have their own journey. No matter how hard we try we cannot control anyone or expect them to behave in a certain manner. The only thing we can do is to expect less and save ourselves from the hurt we are creating, because we just cannot blame them to not to meet our expectations.

If we really love ourselves and want to feel free, we just need to trade our expectations for apperception. Instead of expecting so much from the ones we love, just appreciate them as they are, there’s nothing else we can do other than this.

When we release expectations, we are free to enjoy things for what they are instead of what we think they should be.

Sometimes..it becomes very important for us to come out of our dream world and face the reality because its always better to feel surprised than to feel disappointed.

🙂

Be happy, enjoy life, expect less, appreciate more.. ♡